Tuesday, July 18, 2006

Pop singer Darren Hayes comes out

Australian pop star Darren Hayes, who has sold more than 24 million albums worldwide (both as a member of Savage Garden and as a solo artist) has just come out through a statement posted on his official website.

I don't like his music, but I applaud his decision.

Here's the full text of what he said:-


Monday, 17 July 2006

I very rarely make comments about my private life.

But today, as I'm about to begin 6 months in the studio to record what I hope to be the best record of my career, I feel an overwhelming gratitude for the past 10 years of being a performer. Most recently, I've been moving toward a career that is more closely aligned with 'art' than it is 'commerce'. And in keeping on this trajectory - I have become increasingly more emotionally authentic in my music, writing and my relationship to my audience. As so many of you have given me your heart and soul over the past 10 years I thought it only fitting that I too return the respect and inform you of the most significant event in my life.

On June 19th 2006 I married my boyfriend of two years, Richard, in a Civil Partnership ceremony in London.

I can honestly say it was the happiest day of my life.

I feel lucky to live in an era where my relationship can be considered legally legitimate and I commend the UK Government for embracing this very basic Civil Liberty.

I'm proud of who I am, and after what felt like an eternity, I'm finally in a place where my heart is secure and content. And I can finally make sense of all of the searching.

I still maintain the belief that families and relationships are not commodities to be sold off for public consumption. In this regard, I am and will continue to be a public person with a private life.

I have always written songs about human relationships and our journey in life. I've never felt the need to differentiate or speak to a specific part of society. This hasn't changed. I will continue to write songs for everybody and hope that the feelings and thoughts I sing about are universal. Today, as I get on a plane to return to London, my head will be filled with all the future possibilities that I hope to explore musically.

To the people who buy my records, come to my shows and demonstrate on a daily basis their love and support for me and what I do: thank you.

Your overwhelming message to me lately seems to be that you are just glad that I am happy. For this, I am eternally grateful.

To my Mum, Dad, Sister and Brother - thanks for always being so cool and loving me unconditionally.

With love and respect always
Darren Hayes"


6 comments:

Risperdal Constatine I said...

Who would have guessed?!

Clem said...

We had a thread on Rogue about this. I can't say it was much of a surprise, but good on him!

BEVIS said...

Did you get my email yesterday?

Born Dancin' said...

I'm a bit saddened by two things about Hayes' statement: firstly, the way it implies that coming out couldn't occur while 'commercial' imperatives were in place - ie. admitting that making big bucks is incommensurate with being honest. Hopefully he'll have some equal measure of success with the new stuff, and bring about some small measure of change in that regard. And secondly that he had to go to England to be able to praise that 'basic Civil Liberty'. I don't imagine he'll be moving back to Australia very soon. Of course, even a high-profile star like Hayes wouldn't sway little Johnny's stance on the real meaning of family. Unless the Queen gave the union the thumbs up.

richardwatts said...

Bevis: No, I didn't I'm sorry - wanna try again?

Born Dancin': I concur with both your statements. In some ways, the most depressing of them is Hayes' comment about financial imperatives - and isn't it telling that he was dropped by his record company only one week before he publically came out?

Unknown said...

'sif everyone didn't know already.

good on him nonetheless